Random Life Lesson #3

At this age and point in your life, you will have control of your future self. What I mean to say is that this is the time where you make those big career and personal decisions, which will more or less define your future being. In my personal opinion, the mid to late 20's is where you should already be done experimenting on who you are gonna be. You should already have an inkling of the type of career  that will make you happy and fulfilled. As well as the type of people whom you prefer to be in your life for the next decade or so. You have the control to define these things. So be wise in your decisions. Live a healthy lifestyle. Take the next plane to your dream destination. Explore the world while you can and while you still have the earthly strength to do so. This is your chance to mold your life in the bright future that you've always envisioned it to be. Don't forget to let the Lord guide you in all these things so that you would know where to go and what to choose. And so as the adage goes: live. laugh. love.

Random Life Lesson #2

Avoid lukewarm friends at all costs. They are just plain emotional baggages. Lukewarm friends are those who are just  with you when it comes to certain topics of THEIR interest. They are also the ones to have a mediocre kind of relationship with you, and with the rest of their FB friends list, Twitter followers and BBM contacts list. No, Tam, your friendship with them is not as special as you thought it were.

At the same time, don't ever forget to keep in touch with those rare people who have never failed to make you smile and laugh (out loud), made you feel comfortable and were in one way or another your secret keeper. You know you have those true friends whom you have a certain connection with that does not change despite the time and distance apart. Those who will always be there whenever you need them despite your shortcomings.

Random Life Lesson #1

Never ever force yourself into other people's lives, not unless they clearly tell/show you that they want you in it. Another way to look at it: attach yourself to people who have shown mutual appreciation for everything that you've done for them and have exerted at least an equal amount of effort to be a part of your life. Otherwise, you may end up getting hurt and/or appearing like an idiot.